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Need to Invest in the Acquisition of
Happiness:
To increase our happiness, we must live in such a way that our life- time
value of happiness, or the sum of all of our IIH`s, becomes as high as possible.
To maximize this quantity, we need to “invest” time and effort, just as we do
when we choose to go on to a university to receive a higher education, or to go
beyond.
Most people recognize the great financial investment required to go, for
example, to medical school and become a surgeon. A person considering the
medical field looks at the life-time earnings of medical doctors and concludes
that, economically, it makes sense to invest so much money, time, and effort to
become one. Compared with someone who simply works after high school and makes
money, medical students not only forego income for all those years of studying,
but actually spend much of their own money and a good part of their future
incomes to get the education they want. However, to them the decision to go to
medical school is economically sound. This speaks only of the financial aspects
of the medical profession. I believe that a great majority of medical doctors
and other health professionals choose their professions and invest time and
money on them, not strictly for financial rewards, but for the opportunity to
serve more effectively. I am sure they have examined their interests and talents
and have concluded that the medical profession is the field wherein they can
render the greatest or the most effective service.
We need to use a similar approach to maximize our life- time happiness. Our
investment is mostly in the form of spending time and making an earnest effort
to increase the positive elements of our happiness while reducing the negative
ones. We need to be patient for the results of our efforts to bloom and bear
fruit. After all, nothing is accomplished instantly. We all learned whatever we
know gradually. We received a college degree after spending four years or about
8,000 hours studying. While we were going through this training, we had the
patience and faith that we would eventually reach our goals. The same thing
applies to acquiring happiness. We need to have faith that we will get it and be
patient for it to arrive.
I am delighted to see many people taking steps in this direction,
particularly with respect to their health. For example, to have longer,
healthier lives, many people now refrain from smoking, drinking, eating foods
with high cholesterol, and so on. In a sense, they sacrifice some instant
pleasure in favor of a life- time, or at least long- time, health.
Going back to the Happinometry equation (H = J – F - E), it is clear that to
increase H, we need to increase J and reduce F and E. The first step is to
reduce F, or eliminate any physical problem we may have. That is, we need to be
vigorous in maintaining, and to incorporate proper exercise in our busy work
schedule, so that we can enjoy a completely healthy life.
Reduction of E, or the emotional elements of misery, may be harder than
reducing F, in that it requires a change of attitude. The same thing is true for
increasing J. There are many books written and seminars offered that have the
primary concern of reducing E. The method employed in this site, is aimed at
increasing J while at the same time reducing E. The chief suggestion herein is
to foster love through the rendering of unconditional service. You will see that
the actions we need to take to maximize happiness are different from the popular
current strategies of maximizing income and wealth. They are also different from
attempts to attain fame or secure higher political positions. I do not wish to
discourage earning good money or seeking high political positions. If the
unconditional service that we are engaged in brings us fame or wealth, so be it.
The idea is to avoid becoming arrogant or proud because of that fame or wealth,
and instead to use our status to render even more effective service. With
happiness uppermost as a goal, there is no need to maintain other than a modest
lifestyle while making every effort toward increasing the positive elements and
reducing the negative aspects of our happiness.
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